Family mediation helps families resolve their own disputes about divorce, separation, parenting issues, child support, spousal support, property division and debt responsibility. It is a voluntary, consensual process and the result is determined by the parties.
Mediation can usually be completed in a single day or in several shorter sessions over the period of time chosen by the participants. The process is less expensive and distressing than going through the court system. It also offers a flexible solution and can be modified over time to accommodate changes in family needs.
The mediator will encourage both parties to focus on the needs of their children, and will help them develop a cooperative parenting relationship. The process reduces hostility, which can often be the underlying factor in family disputes. Parents can find it difficult to communicate with each other when they are separated, but in mediation they learn how to do so and can reach an agreement on a parenting plan.
Unlike the court process, mediation is confidential. This allows participants to express their feelings and concerns without fear that what they say will be used against them in court. In many cases, the level of hostility between the parties can be reduced so that they can sit in the same room and talk directly to each other. It is sometimes necessary to have separate or virtual mediation sessions if the levels of hostility are too high to allow the parties to sit together, but even in these circumstances the mediator will try to get as much information from both parties as possible. https://derbyshire.lakesmediation.co.uk/